Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).
Many men come in every day to get their cup of chai or latte. Start a casual conversation with the man standing in line and smile! At this point, you’re just looking to make a friendly connection.
There really are so many ways to meet men even after 60 – it simply takes a shift in mindset.
Second, even if you don’t meet anyone, working out is important for every aspect of your health after 60 – mental, physical, and emotional.
Getting in shape will improve your confidence and improve every aspect of dating after 60.
Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.
Also, a lifetime of love and loss has made many women distrustful and unwilling to get back into the dating game.
He may say “my wife and I…” and that’s totally fine.
There should be no expectations when meeting new people. You can join groups for everything you can possibly imagine including hiking, art, photography, travel or dining out.
Meeting people at the gym has a few build in advantages.
First, any single man that you do meet at the gym is more interested than the average person in staying in shape.
Social media has opened wonderful doors of connection, so, don’t be afraid to look up a single high school friend and even consider attending your next reunion or class event.
Use Linked In to casually say hi to interesting men you’ve met at events.
If you love museums, look for special events that will draw a crowd.