and OVER and OVER and OVER again……and it really amazes me.
A question I get asked over and over again is: You’ve got your online dating profile up on one of the many dating sites, you’re looking for and emailing women you might be interested in…. You email back and forth, eventually its time to ask for the digits… But I would venture to say that the NUMBER ONE reason is this: Most guys go into meeting women online without a PROVEN plan for success and when they’re thrown a curve ball, they have no clue how to react. Guys who are good with women online know how to do just ONE THING that almost ALL other guys DO NOT know how to do…They know how to SPARK ATTRACTION in a woman FAST. They give the woman their screen name HOPING it’s going to get them somewhere with her.
Whats interesting is that 99% of the time, it’s the women who want to chat vs. You’ll NEVER hear a guy want to chat on IM, we usually want to move things to the phone. Most guys fall flat on their faces and fail this one miserably. This might be something you are having issues dealing with RIGHT NOW and not know how to overcome it. Now let’s think for a moment about what could be going on here when she does the IM thing:– She might not really THAT interested– She might not be flexible… There are tens of MILLIONS of single, attractive and available women out there, who are LOOKING for a guy like you. If she’s not flexible, why would you want to be with her?
Online dating questions test
This is the mindset you should start applying daily. Ask good questions, have fun and thanks for adding to the conversation!
Adopting this mindset takes time, it’s a new habit which takes time to internalize. Please use your PERSONAL name or initials and not your business name and do not put your website in the comment text, as both come off like spam.
The 36 questions were published in a study by psychologist Arthur Aron called 'The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness'.
He tested the theory that it's possible to make two people fall in love by getting them to share intimate thoughts and memories. The last, terrifying, element of Aron's experiment requires the two participants to stare into each other's eyes for four minutes. So grab your potential love interest - or any willing particpant (that's half the battle, says Catron, just trying the experiment signals that you're open to falling in love) and get questioning. The 36 questions which can make you 'fall in love with anyone': Set One 1.
If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living?
What roles do love and affection play in your life? Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner.
Critical is fine, but if you're rude, we'll delete your stuff.
Phoebe gives Monica and Chandler a Ms Pac-Man machine, then hogs it.
Now if a woman wants to chat online, you can tell her you either don’t have the time or the programs to chat and let her offer the next step.
I don’t place too much value on meeting one particular woman. Doing this allows you to focus on the process rather on any individual woman and get all caught up in her.
I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with meeting women online for several years now… This is a simple way to overcome this common test women use, and more often than not don’t be surprised if she offers you her number.