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It is neither advantageous or disadvantageous to date outside of your race, or class, or within your gender. Akilah is a comedian taking improv and sketch courses at Upright Citizens Brigade.

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Though I date smart enough humans to not ever be asked to be the voice of my entire race, I still get asked how I feel about rappers using the N-word, and who has access to it.

This conversation doesn't have to be uncomfortable if you're certain of your stance, but if you waiver, they will be forever confused and your weighing-in on the subject can save them from physical harm and embarrassment in the future.3.

Not that any of these things have ever happened to me. Unlike in NYC and LA, the people you date will not have professional headshots on their online profiles.

Most people don't want to date someone who lives too far away, and in Boston, “too far away” usually means the other side of the Charles. They’re more likely to post selfies of themselves in graphic T’s and enormous, name-brand headphones.

Because of this, I have dated quite a few White guys, and while there are similarities when dating any man, there are still some small cultural quirks that never go unnoticed when you’re with a White dude. Trust me, while it gets easier to explain, it doesn't ever stop needing to be explained.2.

They don't want to say the N-word, but they do want to talk about why some people do.

Here are 17 things you need to know before you head out for that wicked-hot date in the Hub. If you're not in grad school, the person asking may pause, give a puzzled look, and contemplate their own crippling student debt before continuing the conversation. Basically, sports games are blackout dates for dating, UNLESS the game IS the date (which is pretty often if we’re honest).

Just resign yourself to talking about your education every time you go out. And if you know what’s good for you, you won’t go Downtown on Patriot’s Day, or cross the river during the Head of the Charles Regatta unless you’re partaking in the festivities.

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