Whether coming on too strong, or being too weak, both extremes can hinder your social life unless you are aware of the symptoms of such behavior.
Today, we’ll talk about the danger of pushing too hard.
There was no subtlety about it; she immediately sensed that I was being too pushy, and in her own words I was coming on too strong.
Now it’s true that some women MAY be turned on by this type of forcefulness.
There are different degrees of coming on too strong.
From regular pushy or abrasive behavior to needy, creepy or even malevolent behavior–as the above “psycho girlfriend” meme I selected for this article demonstrates The really bad kind of psychotic pushiness is often the result of making assumptions in combination with having an extremely skewed or insecure version of reality.
Understand that being extremely kinetic suggests immaturity just as much as the opposite (extreme passiveness or timidity). Being pushy, hyperactive, and making assumptions about your relationship are easy ways to turn her off, but there’s a lot more to consider.
Any time a woman feels she is being coerced by you, then you are walking a perilous path.
Whether in one’s career or one's personal life, it pays if a woman is assertive and confident, being firm in her convictions and unafraid to stand up for them.
But it also involves an element of keeping an open mind and willing to consider someone else’s views.
To this kind of man, coming on to him is one thing, but at least don’t go over the top. First, there is a big difference between being a strong woman in terms of being independent and decisive, with sound values and ethics, and coming on too strong to someone in terms of being opinionated, judgmental and overwhelming – whether sexually or by overriding their views.