Weight means your entire body weight – muscle, organs, fat, water, etc. Fit means that you have a low body fat percentage (for women, having a body fat percentage in the lower 20s is good).
They had hundreds of men look at pictures of women’s bodies and rate them according to which they found the most attractive.
Then, hundreds of women looked at these same pictures and rated how they than what the women believed to be the ideal weight that men want.
So don’t fear putting on muscle – a little bit of muscle actually looks good on women.
Despite lower body fat % and the fact that some muscle on a woman is ideal, most women avoid it because muscle weighs more than fat (by volume).
Waist size is meaningless unless you take all of the other measurements into consideration (height, hips, shoulders, etc.) It’s not about weight or waist size, it’s about ratios. I’m not short, I love my height, though I would like to be higher. I’ve receved great comments from people about my feautures.
(Again, that’s not a slam against women who are naturally very skinny. Not at all, because I am obsessed with food and I eat a lot of junk. Some boys like my looks, but I am really shy and I’m deffinetly do not like going out of my comfort zone so the “liking thing” by that is kind of difficult.
), that are considered these huge sex symbols and are number 1 on every ‘hot list.’ Oh boy… I knew that sooner or later this question would come up and I would have to answer it.
And, like everything else, I will answer it honestly without sugar-coating.
I’ve been really skinny since childhood and some people often were worried about me lifting something or carrying something because they look at my arms and only thing they see are bones. So girls, don’t worry about your body or your looks, because yes, all men aren’t the same and all people aren’t the same too.
Just because one thinks wrong, does not mean every one is like him. In the USA, where I am, women are advised to accept their unhealthiness and extra weight.
The good news for women out there is that the supposed ideal weight you’re aiming for might be significantly lower than what a man would consider ideal.