So to start with, get those nervous little gestures under control.
To start with, learn to fidget less; don’t continually play with your hair, adjust your clothes or flutter your hands. Eliminating fillers from your speech like “umm”, “errr” and “well…” is also useful.
The right outfit – or the wrong one, for that matter – can utterly transform you.
But above all else, when you make eye contact, you need to a smile comes off as though you’re evaluating whether her flesh would make a fetching lampshade.
Making eye contact, giving her a slow smile and opening up your body language on the other hand…
things that make up the difference – things that are easily overlooked, but powerful when utilized properly.
Here are five subtle attributes you can use to make yourself much more attractive… One of the quickest ways to make yourself more attractive is one of the simplest: take up more room. There’s a direct correlation between how attractive someone is perceived as being and what’s known as “space maximization”.
Being less fidgety and twitchy makes you look more collected and more at ease with yourself and with the people you’re talking to.
As with taking up space, this helps make you look more confident, and confidence – as we all know – is .
To give a concrete example: Serge Gainsbourg was nobody’s idea of a male model, but he was as all hell.
For a man who looks like the love-child of Steve Buscemi and Droopy Dog, he got more famous ass than a drunk man with a stolen credit card at a celebrity donkey auction who then escaped by crashing through a plate-ass window.
After all, most of you’re reading this site for dating advice and there’s no question that being attractive gives people a leg up when it comes to dating.