One option is to just ignore it if you’re not terrible uncomfortable — just decide that this is her own weird eccentricity and you’re going to leave her to happily stare at people while you deliberately become oblivious.
It’s an intense look – the kind you can feel when not looking and even if you look over as she’s looking, she doesn’t smile and go about her business – she lingers.
Honestly, once you get past the judgmental aspect, it’s downright creepy.
” (Again, said nicely — like you’re curious, not like you’re being confrontational.) Or, alternately, just say “Jane, stop staring at me! ” If these are too direct for your comfort level, then you’re left going back to option one: Commit to blocking it out, which is often a good approach for annoying traits in other people that you can’t change.
I believe that many of the traditional roles of men and women are valid and essential to creating and preserving the right dynamics in a relationship, and some of us are too quick to dismiss those customs that have been established over many centuries or even thousands of years, and which made the relationships between men and women work much better before than they do today.
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