Texting is unofficially reserved for light hearted, playful conversation, so unless you want to get friend-zoned avoid getting drawn into boring subject matter that goes nowhere.
If everything’s already been said over text then what’s the point in meeting up?
In fact, so many guys thrive off the validation of her texting back they forget to ask her out altogether!
NEWSFLASH: Girls do not want to have long drawn out conversations over text. After all, the longer you talk to her the more likely you are to say something stupid and screw everything up.
You will also lose all your mystery and destroy her excitement for meeting up with you.
When you’re struggling for ideas start by asking her how that thing she said she was going to do went…but in a dorky way that makes her eager to respond.
In the example below this girl previously said she was going to spend her Sunday afternoon binge watching Iron Man.We then agree to meet at a bar first to discuss our big bank robbery plans.Then there’s roleplaying with a more naughty theme. In this scenario I playfully ask if she’s a good girl or a bad girl then go from there: A lot of guys don’t know when to ask a girl out.Even if your day did truly suck there’s always got to be at least one highlight you can pick out, for example: As a rule if you cannot think of anything fun to say simply put your phone down and come back to it later.It’s never worth texting a girl when you’re in a negative mood.So I texted her this: If you have no idea what she’s been up to and want a “go-to” topic that always encourages banter, teasing, giggling and plenty of connecting then I recommend you focus on these things: Travelling – find out the place in the world she really wants to go to, role-play about taking her there sometime and imagine the things you’d do there.