If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).
If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.
Watch for these milestones, and you’ll know if the casual dating phase is almost over.
Holding off to avoid judgement is ridiculous – how can two people have sex at the same time but only one of them does it too soon?
Any guy who loses interest in you for having casual sex “too soon” is not worth having around.
Sure, acting unavailable might work at the casual dating stage, but what happens after that? Learn an instrument, a language, or take dancing lessons. 2) Set Boundaries Why would someone commit to you if they’re getting everything they want without the commitment?
How long before insecurities, neediness, and jealousy creep in? If you’re struggling to find people willing to move beyond casual dating, there’s a good chance you’re giving too much.
Meeting Friends Meeting each other’s social group is a big step.
If you make it past the gauntlet of scrutiny from their friends, things are well on their way.
3) This Secret Psychology Brain Hack Here’s a way to discover how you might be sabotaging yourself without knowing it.
When you go on a date, what do you think the purpose is?
It’s true that being overly available can seem desperate or unattractive, but the last thing you want to do is play dating games.